The Work
What happens in a session? I have a cozy space located in Oakland. There are options to sit and talk, to cuddle, to dance, to wrestle, to cry, to scream, or to focus on healing touch. Each session will evolve around meeting you where you're at and then delving in through conscious experiments in presence and embodiment. Work ranges from the subtle energetic body, to the overt physical, to the heart-intuitive. It's a combination of the sublimely and raucously spiritual and the practical rewiring of neural pathways.
Step with me into a space of complete acceptance, and then stay present for all that unfolds. So much of what we pursue or avoid is motivated by our relationship with our own sexuality and identity. As such, sexual fantasies are a revealing map of the subconscious. This is a safe space where nothing is too taboo to be heard and honored. A teacher resides in every impulse and longing. In inviting it all to be recognized as a part of yourself with unconditional loving acceptance, space can be created for new pathways to be formed and new material to be integrated. Neuro-Linguistic Programming directly intervenes in the old, undesired patterns, and the Western Sacred Sexuality and Hakomi influences bring the integration into spiritual embodiment.
"There is no coming to consciousness without pain. People will do anything, no matter how absurd, in order to avoid facing their own Soul. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious." ~ C.G. Jung
It all boils down to facing yourself and falling in love. Don't worry if that sounds scary. It may take more than one session for the courtship to develop into a romance. Let's learn all there is to learn about ourselves when drives such as lust, anger, fear, victimhood, dishonesty, greed, superiority, and other shadows are acknowledged without shame.
Cultivating capacity and presence. Owning your shit. Diving deeper into what it means to radically awaken to being human.
Who is this work for?
- Anyone thirsting to get a taste of the confidence, ease, pleasure, power, and depth to be found in this life
- Anyone drawn to developing the capacity to fully experience life while staying present and connected to your self and others
- Anyone who experiences being "pulled off center" by grasping at desires or avoiding discomforts
- Anyone who is aware of intimacy blockages that may show up emotionally or physically as numbness or hypersensitivity
- Anyone ready to step out of current relationship patterns and develop their inner soulmate relationship
- Anyone who has triggers (out of proportion reactions to the true current threat) to defuse, or contractions to ease
- Anyone who would like support in unpacking their experience of gender in society or personal identification
- Anyone interested in polyamory, kink, pansexuality or other less commonly traveled paths of relating
- Anyone currently afraid of their own sexuality or confused about how to behave and connect in society
Sessions may involve:
- Transformational Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
- Guided meditation
- Exploring polarities and archetypes and all the edges of regularly denied expression
- Unpacking and embracing the messages in sexual fantasies and power dynamics
- Finding the connection between consciousness, sex, and spirituality
- Somatically releasing trauma or other stuck parts
- Aspecting conversations (between different parts of your self)
- Energetic healing and platonic touch, such as cuddling
Covering a range of applications:
- Support in moving through shame, anger, and grief
- Befriending your inner critic
- Developing your witness (ego released consciousness)
- Connecting with resource, presence, your body, and consciousness
- Rewiring the brain after traumatic or formative experiences from childhood
- Developing a sacred understanding of sexuality
- Expanding your menu for what is available
- Embracing your sexual animal
- Developing your inner Alpha and Omega polarities (the fullness similar to the Masculine and Feminine in non-duality)
Clients report:
- More strength, ease, and clarity in emotionally challenging situations
- Decrease in anxiety and stress
- Finding in themselves the love and support they thought they needed to find in others, and truly understanding how to show up for themselves
- Increased passion and sexual connection
- Meeting life with new humor
- Meeting life with new pleasure
- Gaining clarity around life choices
- Transforming their relationship to all other beings, be it casual, professional, or romantic
- Finding the liberation to be who they never thought they were allowed to be
Agreements:
By contacting me you agree that you're ready to look scary things in the face. This work can be intense and is not for everyone. It requires solid participation and consent on your part. The very nature of this material confronts the ego (long created structures of self) and so regularly triggers deep seated resistance. Hanging out together in your resistance is no fun for either of us and is a waste of money for you. I'm not here to convince you that personal growth or awakening is a good idea. In signing up to work with me you agree to be coachable and try things on. You're welcome to take what works with you and ditch what doesn't.